• fizzygur
    Friday, February 5th, 2010 at 14:26 | #1

    I think it is important to share all your little fantasies and fetishes with the person you want to spend your life with. You shouldn’t have to hide who you are or what you like from your future wife. By the way, you shouldn’t be ashamed- I hear that a fair number of guys also enjoy trying on undies and lingerie just for the feel of it. Just make sure you don’t sneak around trying on her stuff- it would really shock her, plus you might accidentally rip a pair of her panties, and how would you explain that? Be honest, and you’ll quickly find out if she really is the one for you.

  • Lindsay
    Friday, February 5th, 2010 at 14:40 | #2

    I can understand that, I think a lot of people have fetishes for different things. I have definitely heard of men enjoying doing this and it doesn’t mean that you’re gay. Although I can’t say wether your fiance will accept this or not, it depends on your the kind of person she is. I took a chance and told my fiance about a weird fetish of mine (believe me it’s weird) and we giggled about it a little and I was like I can’t believe I just told you that and he was completely okay with it. I wonder if you could buy some silk men’s underwear and/or Pajamas that would make you feel good as well. That way you could avoid telling her you’ve been trying on HER lingerie.
    Good Luck!

  • __A_YAHO
    Friday, February 5th, 2010 at 19:01 | #3

    dude, don’t worry about it and enjoy it. i started wearing girls undies a few years back. I just thought that girls had better choices of undies than guys. I mean boxers, how boring. I sometimes wear guys thongs and bikinis, but prefer my panties. My gf knows and is totally cool with it. She thinks it is super hot. The first time I had the guts to show her, I put on a pair of pink bikini undies. She said, those are really cute. Now we shop for undies together. so, I guess it depends on the girl. I guess the question is, why can’t guys enjoy lingerie too?
    If she is really the one for you, she will not only not care, but find it incredibly sexy. If she doesn’t, better to know now.

  • Saturday, February 6th, 2010 at 00:05 | #4

    There are two different scenarios here with two different outcomes:
    1. If you are putting it on in secret because it makes you feel feminine, and you like that, you may want to do some self exploration and figure out who you really are.
    2. If you are putting it on in front of her and just joking around, then that is different. My FH has put on one of my bras once or twice and pranced around in a gay voice. But I know he is just joking and it doesn’t worry me (in fact, it makes me laugh my *** off).

  • I Wanna Fukkk
    Saturday, February 6th, 2010 at 03:22 | #5

    Thank God, that has never been a desire of mine to be wearing WOMEN’S CLOTHES. Women’s clothes are for WOMEN, and men’s clothes are for MEN! Yes, the FEEL of the fabric is very soothing, but why can’t a man just, if nothing else, just lay the lingerie across him on the bed if he just HAS to feel that feeling?

  • Ace of hearts
    Saturday, February 6th, 2010 at 08:27 | #6

    Tell her you like it and use it as a role play situation for intimacy! I believe allot of men although they wouldn’t openly admit it have tried on women’s clothing, whether it was as a child or adult! Its so sad that people have to fell guilty if they have a little quirk that others might find strange!

  • Ryan
    Saturday, February 6th, 2010 at 13:02 | #7

    Your best bet is to just come clean with it. Who knows, she might find it sexy. You don’t want to go through life not doing the things you want even if it isn’t the most mainstream thing.

  • dreamer9
    Saturday, February 6th, 2010 at 14:09 | #8

    well, if she truely loves you, she wouldnt think less of you. but she would laugh her butt off. and so what u like to wear lingerie, i like boxers ^.^

  • Saturday, February 6th, 2010 at 18:14 | #9

    That is ridiculous, if you were my hubby and I saw you in my undies, I would really think you are gay or have some issues. Better break that stupid habit please, and right now. Wear MAN stuff, boxers yeah?

  • Meaux
    Saturday, February 6th, 2010 at 19:19 | #10

    You should probably let you know so you can discuss this very serious matter. You need help from a psychotherapist, I’m sure your fiance will support you during this hard time.

  • Cocoa Cake
    Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at 00:59 | #11

    i dont think ur gay, just a crossdresser, kinda..cuz u only try on the ligerie. but i think a lot of boys n men do dis but are too afraid to admit to it.

  • KemmAzik
    Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at 03:22 | #12

    I’d be very uncomfortable
    and ask you to see a therapist
    if you refused i’d leave you
    i dont think i’d laugh at all

  • Boogers
    Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at 09:52 | #13

    If it is the feel you enjoy I suggest that you go out and get some silk pj’s or boxers. That’s pretty creepy and she will probably think its very strange.

  • ThisIsIt
    Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at 13:58 | #14

    A lot of guys do this but won’t tell anyone. You may try telling her. Just ease into the subject. She may find it amusing.

  • Megan C
    Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at 14:28 | #15

    I would seriously question marrying the man. Quit being stupid. You like the feel of it have her wear it and then touch her.

  • Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at 20:57 | #16

    Buy yourself some silk boxers…they feel just as nice as women’s lingerie, and it won’t leave you looking like less of a man.

  • jess
    Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at 22:28 | #17

    do you also dance around singing “Goodbye Horses?”

  • Linda
    Monday, February 8th, 2010 at 04:29 | #18

    Hmm, I would think your are so strange and less of a man, a little… but seriously dude..gross, go to the gym or something!
    Maybe your bisexual?

  • BMTH4978
    Monday, February 8th, 2010 at 11:04 | #19

    HAHAHAHAHAHA.

  • Ashley<3
    Monday, February 8th, 2010 at 16:03 | #20

    Why would you do that? I would not do that just for the sake of not being caught.

  • purple_e
    Monday, February 8th, 2010 at 18:32 | #21

    Wow if this was me I would say that you were GAY!!! There is nothing wrong with that but tell your finance BEFORE you get married that you think you might be gay!

  • __A_YAHO
    Monday, February 8th, 2010 at 22:11 | #22

    Thats twisted.

  • Faith
    Tuesday, February 9th, 2010 at 04:57 | #23

    Your werid

  • Max
    Tuesday, February 9th, 2010 at 09:28 | #24

    WTF

  • JCMOMMY
    Tuesday, February 9th, 2010 at 12:46 | #25

    Your kidding me right?

  • Tuesday, February 9th, 2010 at 13:35 | #26

    well if it makes you feel good, why not.

  • stephen h
    Tuesday, February 9th, 2010 at 17:58 | #27

    dude you are a fag
    what kind of man are you?

  • Tuesday, February 9th, 2010 at 23:34 | #28

    ur just curious. if i caught my bf doin that i would just laugh haha x

  • dancer87
    Wednesday, February 10th, 2010 at 03:51 | #29

    maybe your gay?

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